Attractions.

What is it that attracts us to other people? Is it Looks? Is it Personality? Is it a blend of both? Or is it something we can not determine, is it merely a feeling?

I have been thinking about this for a while now. When I look at someone, I generally make a presumptive judgement as to whether or not I am attracted to them. This is being based on a purely physical judgement and nothing else. Is this fair to do? I don't think so, and yet, knowing this, I still go on and judge like crazy based on appearances. That being said, I have recently found myself less attracted to people I once judged as being attractive as I have gotten to know them. I found their personality to be terrible which has made me rethink my initial thoughts. I tend to find that this happens an awful lot. I sometimes find myself pondering on the thought that perhaps the visually impaired can make a better judgement on a person than I ever could as they don't have the physical interpretation of a person to distract them from the persons true self. (Sorry if that isn't politically correct but I can't help but wonder... also sorry if it is a touch confusing)

I have never experienced that 'feeling' that you supposedly get when you first see your true love. I have never had butterflies in my stomach when my eyes first glance upon that special someone. The nearest to that I have ever had is a strong stirring in my pants. I wonder if that feeling truly exists or if people that are in a happy relationship just say it to torment the single's in the world.

Now, when asked what type of person I am attracted to most, I find it difficult to answer. I find myself often attracted to someone because of one reason, be it their eyes, nose, arms, legs, ears, hair, dress style or something they have done that I thought was so (for lack of a better word) awesome that I wanted to have sex with them (sounds weird but it is true). However sometimes the whole package comes rolled up into one near perfect human. In this, I am including looks, personality (or what I have seen from them), personal style and overall general feeling I get when I see them. Not the butterfly feeling, more the pant stirring feeling. Well, I have decided that for me, this person is Matt Dallas. Known as Kyle from the T.V. show Kyle XY.

I actually found myself the other day watching Kyle XY, just staring at him, I didn't even know what was happening in the show, I had blocked out most sounds and all other visuals, bar him. It is a little embarrassing but I don't care.

I think I find his lips the most appealing. I enjoy the thin upper lip with a larger lower lip look.

Anyway, point of this blog was, I just wanted to know what makes people eternally attractive, can it just be a single element or does it need to be a mixture of looks and personality?